The Aurora Review

Fall 2004


David Sedaris
Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim
Little, Brown, and Company

Reviewed by Jane Keaton

Buy Dress Your Kids in Corduroy and DenimIn his new book, Dress your Family in Corduroy and Denim, David Sedaris continues his investigation into who here is the animal and who the zookeeper in this zoo we call life. We journey with him through such dilemmas as how he, a gay teen, navigates strip poker at an all-boy slumber party or, as a recovering drug addict, stands up to the nine-year-old bully in his tenement.

These stories focus on Sedaris’ middle-class, suburban upbringing, where both the rich and the poor are outsiders and the children are fed on pop culture. Sedaris adds to this an unflinching exposure of the basest human emotions, usually his own. When his father proposes buying the family a vacation home, Sedaris imagines how “my classmates would court me, hoping I might invite them for a weekend, and I would make a game of pitting them against each other.”

Sedaris punctuates this variety show of prejudice, greed, and humiliation with dark hyperboles sprung on the reader at the end of otherwise innocuous statements. When their weary mother orders Sedaris and his sisters out to play in the snow, “dusk approached, and as it grew colder it occurred to us that we could possibly die.” This is the kind of book where, when the author tells you, “on the fifth day of our vacation my mother had a little breakdown,” you know he means it clinically.

The weavings and wanderings of Sedaris’ imagination are a delight. Strewn through the book like pieces of ginger candy, they start out chewy and sweet and finish hot as a jalapeno. As a condo-hunter vacationing in Amsterdam, Sedaris falls head over heels for a certain upstairs apartment. “[We] stopped to examine the movie-star portraits glued to Anne Frank’s bedroom wall -- a wall that I personally would have knocked down -- and I raced on to the bathroom, and then to the water closet with its delft toilet bowl looking for all the world like a big soup tureen”.

It’s this lively and unbridled imagination that keeps Sedaris from full-fledged membership in his middle-class culture and pits him instead in its audience, where he ruminates, criticizes, and throws tomatoes. The clincher is that Sedaris is both a critic and a member of the cast, and so are you. The book sneaks up and casts a mirror at you just when you’re convinced you’re laughing at someone else.

But it’s also this imagination that fans the flame under Sedaris’s fundamental empathy for his characters. Running below each narrative is a moral dividing line, disdaining greed, hypocrisy, and cruelty and esteeming enthusiasm, imagination, and a desire for love and belonging.


Sedaris’ love for humanity, no matter its distance from grace, makes these stories sly and funny and heartbreaking as they pull us in a tug-of-war between who we want to be and who we are.


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